Believe it or not, this is totally normal. Not everyone has sexual pleasure in their vagina, and that’s okay! Some statistics state that only about 25% of females are able to orgasm exclusively from vaginal penetration, and most need extra stimulation (like of the clitoris) to achieve sexual arousal. So don’t worry – you aren’t alone. It’s more a misconception (likely reinforced by loads of false descriptions and expectations out there) that vaginal stimulation is all it takes. Don’t be afraid to talk with your future partners about what feels good, and in the meantime just focus on your own exploration and discovery.